This is when you pay special attention
to the person you are interested in.
You may spend more time with them,
listen to their stories, laugh at
their jokes and make them cards. When
you like someone, its hard to
concentrate and be yourself. Here
are some ideas of how to flirt and
keep things in perspective:
- Reverse roles. How do you
like to be flirted with? Consider
doing or saying something similar.
- Get perspective. If the
person isn't interested, know that
it's their loss and not yours.
- Start small. Don't expect
to say and do everything the first
- Be yourself. Let them know
who you are from the start. If they
don't like your personality, chances
are that you won't like their personality.
- Go with it. If they seem
interested, do what comes naturally.
- Back away. If they don't
seem interested, stop.
- Forget about it. If they
treat you with disrespect, be thankful
you didn't waste any more time on
them. They're obviously not worth
- Keep your eyes open. After
all that effort, they may not seem
so great. Flirting doesn't make
you committed for life. If they're
interested but you're not, tell